In this case, George had difficulty asking his first wife for sex. After the
divorce, when she asked for sex, he couldn't say no, and felt guilty
afterwards, leading directly or indirectly to his physical symptoms centering
around the genitals. Although Staphysagria is not in the repertory for
inflammation of the scrotum, the state of the remedy was clearly present, and
we could prescribe it with confidence.
At his six-week follow-up, George reported that the irritation on his scrotum
had disappeared. He had some dry, cracking skin behind the glans
for a few days, which responded to Vit. E oil. He used a condom during sex to
prevent any abrasion. He continued to go to therapy. He reported that he feels
more stable emotionally. He was dealing with the anger toward his ex-wife and
letting it out. He was trying to let go of the guilt. He recalled a recent
dream about releasing anger.
The anal itching became intense for a week. Now it was just there slightly at
night. His sexual energy was good. Once he got furious during sex because the
condom he was using was too thick to feel anything, but he expressed the
feelings and they soon passed. He wasn't avoiding sex now, but he still worried
that he would not completely recover.
We assessed that George had an initially positive response to the remedy and
waited. In six weeks he returned and reported a setback for a week after dental
work, with some scrotal redness. His stability had returned, however, and now
the redness was only occasional. He had intense dreams of fearful, frantic or
angry and violent situations during the week after the dental work. He awoke
with hypersensitivity of the genitals. He became moody and irritable. He felt
that his feelings were directly tied into the symptoms of his genitals. If he
suppressed his feelings, the symptoms would appear. In therapy,George recovered
a vivid memory of being four years old, and an aunt lowering him onto her hot,
red genitals. He felt that this memory directly related to the inflammation he
had been experiencing. He also recalled that anger had not been permitted in
his family and he had to earn back his mother's approval if he expressed his
anger.
Two months later, George returned. He was no longer having any problems with
sex, and he did not feel guilty about what had happened with his wife. His
scrotum got red briefly once when he had to take on more responsibility at
work and give a talk to a large group. He managed his anxiety and the talk went
well. His anal itching had returned mildly with some flaking around the
opening. He seemed much less anxious about his health. A few applications of
calendula cream helped the itching. Some red spots behind the glans had
appeared for a day, but now were gone. He had a dream of a woman with a red,
peeling penis. Another dream was of a woman telling him not to pick apples.
We assessed that George was much better mentally and emotionally, but he was
having mild physical symptoms which were either stress induced or a return of
old symptoms.
George continued to do well. He one minor irritation of his penis after sex
and one patch of reddish dry skin on his thigh which came and went without
treatment. He was proud of the changes in himself. He felt that he had grown a
lot in the past year. He felt positive, together, no longer guilt ridden. Her
could express his feelings much more easily. His relationship continued to
blossom and he felt very good about his sexual life. He began to explore
meditation and relaxation techniques to reduce stress at work and grow
spiritually.