Timing- We have often witnessed some type of synchronicity in the
healing process. Patients may tell us they attended one of our classes or read
an article we wrote two or three years before. Healing is not an urgent issue
for them. They file us and the idea of natural healing somewhere in their
brains. Then a pressing health issue arises for them and they call. This is the
time their motivation level is the highest. Sometimes everything in our lives,
including our health, falls apart simultaneously. Or we think our health is
great and we're diagnosed with cancer or some other serious illness. We have
found consistently that the timing of these events is no accident. As we do
hypnosis to help our patients explore the underlying reasons for their illness,
time and time again they discover what particular purpose their symptoms or
life circumstances are serving and what lessons they can learn from their
experience.
Illness often occurs at just the right moment to force a dramatic change
in one's life. One of our patients is an internationally renowned sculptor.
Though his motives were originally pure, he found that the more his fame
increased, the more materialistic he became. He pushed himself to work as
quickly as he could to create marketable pieces and travelled frequently to
show his work. He spent more time with superficial acquaintances rather the
close friends he had before. He became quite wealthy. A mutual friend confided
in me that the last time she saw him, she was shocked. The old Peter she knew
was gone. She found him to be arrogant and egotistical and, literally, never
cared if she saw him again. His life was moving faster and faster. Than a
tragic accident occurred, or so it seemed. He was riding his motorcycle on the
freeway and a car hit him. He was in a coma for weeks. His doctors weren't sure
if he would live or die. With time, he came out of the coma, but as a
different person. It took him over a year to recover and in the process he
found a joy and simplicity in life that he had lost. He went back to his
sculpting, but at a slower pace. He found a deeply meaningful relationship and
reconnected with his old, dear friends. In the process of nearly losing his
life, he again found his real reason for living.
We received a letter yesterday from a patient we had treated for cervical
dysplasia, which we can usually treat quite successfully. Her Pap smear had
improved but not completely normalized when we last saw her. There was a
certain sense of disappointment for her as well as for us. The healing hadn't
occurred as fully and completely as we had expected. She wrote in her note
that her Pap was now normal and that she was so grateful for our patience in
her healing process.
The Universe had a lslightly more gradual timing in mind for her healing.
Karma- Karma, literally, means "action" and corresponds to the
Western principle, "As you sow, so shall you reap". In cultures such as
Hinduism and Buddhism, which believe in reincarnation, it is commonly accepted
that our circumstances of this life are direct results of our actions in former
lives. To our way of thinking, karma means that there are certain experiences
we have had in the past, either this life or previous lives, which influence
our current lives. For example, we have had exposure to a variety of different
healing methods and traditions. The moment we started reading about homeopathy
years ago, it rang remarkably true to us. Similarly, we feel right at home
when we practice Ayurvedic Medicine because of our strong connection with
India. It feels very familiar, as if we had known it before.