Remember to be open to receiving messages as to when it's time to quit a
job you have in the present. Carole, 32, came to us complaining of acne
rosacea, a red rash covering the cheeks and
nose. The rash was quite obvious and embarrassing to her. Through hypnosis, it
became clear that she held considerable anger and resentment towards her
employers and needed to quit in order to become healed. Another patient, Carl,
an insurance manager, was promoted to a new job in a territory with which he
was unfamiliar. Even though he was quite competent in his field, he was
continually humiliated by his employees who challenged his newness and lack of
managerial experience. The continual blatant slurs on his abilities shook his self-esteem
to its roots and
resulted in a flareup of rheumatoid arthritis he'd had years earlier. He was
bound and determined to stay in the job, no matter what. It was clear to us
that in order to heal, he would
need to let go of his pride and change jobs, but he was unwilling to do so and
his arthritis worsened.
It is our belief that each of us has a personal and/or a larger mission or
purpose for their life which we can discover and fulfill, and that we find our
greatest satisfaction and excellent health when we are actually living in
accord with our purpose. How do you go about discovering what your purpose is?
The first way is to take a look at your natural talents, interests and
abilities. What do you do well? What is easy for you? What makes your heart
sing with joy when you do it? How do you really look forward to spending your
time? If you didn't have to work, what would you do? What is the most fun for
you? Honest answers to these questions will put you on the right track. Answer
them for yourself by writing the answers down right now. Now close your eyes
and let yourself relax. Go on an inner journey to visit your higher self. One
way is to imagine riding an elevator higher and higher until you come to the
place where your higher self lives. When the door opens, there is your higher
self, waiting to love and guide you toward your purpose. Take this opportunity
to ask any questions about your life, purpose and mission for this lifetime.
Your higher self knows your purpose and can guide you well. When you return
from your journey, be ready to put that advice into real world changes in your
work and lifestyle. We often do this visualization with the patients who come
to us, and the results are profound. People discover what they had consciously
forgotten about why they are really here, and what they have chosen to be and
do in this life.
Begin by creating a vision of your ideal work. See the kind of work, the
environment supportive of that work, the wonderful people you would be sharing
the work with, those who would benefit from your work, and the contribution
which your work would be making. If money weren't the primary issue, and
enjoying your work was, what would you really like to do? How could you turn
your favorite pleasures into income, legally that is? Here's an idea from Phil
Laut's book, Money Is My Friend. Make a list of your ten favorite
pleasures, activities that bring you a sense of fun, joy and satisfaction.
Pick one that either produces a product or service from which you could receive
income. Something that you would look forward to doing when you wake up in the
morning that would bring other people something that they really needed or
desired. When you produce what other people truly need or want, they are more
than happy to reward your efforts handsomely. Now commit yourself to doing that
activity until you make at least $100 from it. If you can make $100 while
enjoying yourself, why would you ever want to do what you hate, just for the
money. For example, if you like photography, take lots of pictures, select the
best ones and sell them, to friends, galleries, magazines, at street fairs,
shows and on the corner. Whatever it takes. It helps to select an activity that
you not only like a lot, but that you are also good at. People will want to
purchase a product or service produced with joy and love. Your enthusiasm for
your work will help you naturally sell the product of your creativity. In this
way, money shows up in your life without a struggle and with a great deal of
joy and pleasure. Wouldn't it be great to feel excited about your work, and to
share that excitement with others?